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| Rehat Maryada
is the official document of Sikh Code of Conduct
and Conventions issued by Shromani Gurudwara Parbandhak
Committee (S.G.P.C.) to produce a modern standard
Rehat. The preparation this document involved the
greatest Sikh scholars and theologians who worked
to produce the current version. The document produced
has been accepted as the official version which
provides guidelines against which all Sikh individuals
and communities around the world can measure themselves.
The Rehat Maryada is the only version authorized
by the Akal Takht, the seat of supreme temporal
authority for Sikhs. The proper implementation of
this document will enable to achieved a high level
of uniformity in the religious and social practices
of Sikhism. The following is the text of the said
document.
The Code
Of Sikh Conduct And Conventions
The following is an article issued by Shiromani
Gurudwara Prabandhak Committee on the formal Code
of Conduct and Conventions of Sikhs.
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The
Definition of Sikh
Article I
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who faithfully believes in |
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One Immortal
Being, |
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Ten Gurus, from
Guru Nanak Dev to Guru Gobind Singh, |
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The Guru Granth
Sahib, |
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The
utterances and teachings of the ten Gurus
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The baptism bequeathed
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and who does
not owe allegiance to any other religion,
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Sikh
Living
Article II
A Sikhs life has two aspects
: individual or personal and corporate or Panthic
( as described below in detail)
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A Sikh's
Personal Life
Article III
A Sikhs personal life
should comprehend
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meditation on
Nam (Divine Substance)* and the scriptures,
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leading life
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altruistic voluntary
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Meditating
on Nam and the scriptures
Article IV
(1) A Sikh should wake up in the
ambrosial hours (three hours before the dawn),
take bath and, concentrating his/her thoughts
on One Immortal Being, repeat the name Waheguru
(Wondrous Destroyer of darkness).
(2) He/she should recite the following
scriptural compositions every day :
(a) the Japu, the Jaapu and the
Ten Sawayyas
(Quartets) - beginning Sarãwag sudh
- in the morning.
(b) Sodar Rehras comprising the
following compositions:
(i) nine hymns of the Guru Granth
Sahib, occurring in the holy book after the Japuji
Sahib, * the first of which begins with Sodar
and the last of which ends with saran pare
kì rãkhõ sarmã.
(ii) The Benti Chaupai of the tenth Guru (beginning
hamrì karõ hãth dai
rachhã and ending with dusht
dõkh te lehõ bachãi
(iii) the Sawayya beginning with the words pae
gaho jab te tumre (iv) the Dohira beginning
with the words sagal duãr kau chhãd
kai (v) the first five and the last pauris
(stanzas) of Anand Sahib and (vi) the Mundawani
and the Slok Mahla 5 beginning terã
kìtã jato nãhi in the
evening after sunset.
(c) the Sohila - to be recited
at night before going to bed.
The morning and evening recitations should be
concluded with Ardas (formal supplication litany).
The text 2 of the Ardas : **
One Absolute Manifest; victory
belong to the Wonderous Destroyer of darkness.
May the might of the All-powerful help! Ode to
his might by the tenth lord.
Having first thought of the Almightys
prowess, let us think of Guru Nanak. Then of Guru
Angad, Amardas and Ramdas - may they be our rescuers!
Remember then Arjan, Hargobind and Harirai. Meditate
then on revered Hari Krishan on seeing whom all
suffering vanishes. Think then of Tegh Bahadar,
remembrance of whom brings all nine treasures.
He comes to rescue everywhere. Then of the tenth
lord, revered Guru Gobind Singh, who comes to
rescue everywhere. The embodiment of the light
of all ten sovereign lordships, the Guru Granth
Sahib - think of the view and reading of it and
say, Waheguru (Wondrous Destroyer of darkness).
Meditating on the achievement
of the dear and truthful ones, including the five
beloved ones, the four sons of the tenth Guru,
forty liberated ones, steadfast ones, constant
repeaters of the Divine Name, those given to assiduous
devotion, those who repeated the Nam, shared their
fare with others, ran free kitchen, wielded the
sword and everlooked faults and shortcomings,
say Waheguru, O Khalsa.
Meditating on the achievement
of the male and female members of the Khalsa who
laid down their lives in the cause of dharma (religion
and righteousness), got their bodies dismembered
bit by bit, got their skulls sawn off, got mounted
on spiked wheels, got their bodies sawn, made
sacrifices in the service of the shrines (gurdwaras),
did not betray their faith, sustained their adherence
to the Sikh faith with sacred unshorn hair uptill
their last breath, say, Wondrous Destroyer
of darkness, O Khalsa.
Thinking of the five thrones (seats
of religious authority) and all gurdwaras, say,
Wondrous Destroyer of darkness, O
Khalsa.
Now it is the prayer of the whole
Khalsa. May the conscience of the whole Khalsa
be informed by Waheguru, Waheguru, Waheguru and,
in consequence of such remembrance, may total
well-being obtain. Wherever there are communities
of the Khalsa, may there be Divine protection
and grace, and ascendance of the supply of needs
and of the holy sword, protection of the tradition
of grace, victory to the Panth, the succour of
the holy sword, ascendance of the Khalsa. Say,
O Khalsa, Wondrous Destroyer of darkness.
Unto the Sikhs the gift of the
Sikh faith, the gift of the untrimmed hair, the
gift of the disciple of their faith, the gift
of sense of discrimination, the gift of truest,
the gift of confidence, above all, the gift of
meditation on the Divine and bath in the Amritsar
(holy tank at Amritsar). May hymns-singing missionary
parties, the flags, the hostels, abide from age
to age. May righteousness reign supreme. Say,
Wondrous Destroyer of darkness.
May the Khalsa be imbued with
humility and high wisdom! May Waheguru guard its
understanding! O Immortal Being, eternal helper
of Thy Panth, benevolent Lord, bestow on the Khalsa
the beneficence of unobstructed visit to the free
management of Nankana Sahib and other shrines
and places of the Guru from which the Panth have
been separated.
O Thou, the honor of the humble,
the strength of the weak, aid unto those who have
none to rely on, True Father, Wondrous Destroyer
of darkness, we humbly render to you...... 3 Pardon
any impermissible accretions, omissions, errors,
mistakes. Fulfill the purposes of all.
Grant us the association of those
dear ones, on meeting whom one is reminded of
Your Name. O Nanak, may the Nam (Holy) be ever
in ascendance! In Thy will may the good of all
prevail!
(b) On the conclusion of the Ardas,
the entire congregation participating in the Ardas
should respectfully genuflect before the revered
Guru Granth, then stand up and call out, The
Khalsa is of the Wondrous Destroyer of darkness;
victory also is His. The Congregation should,
thereafter, raise the loud spirited chant of Sat
Sri Akal (True is the Timeless Being).
(c) While the Ardas is being performed,
all men and women in the congregation should stand
with hands folded. The person in attendance of
the Guru Granth should keep waving the whisk standing.
(d) The person who performs the
Ardas should stand facing the Guru Granth with
hands folded. If the Guru Granth is not there,
the performing of the Ardas facing any direction
is acceptable.
(e) When any special Ardas for
and on behalf of one or more persons is offered,
it is not necessary for persons in the congregation
other than that person or those persons to stand
up.
* The phrase in italics
has been interpolated by the translator to help
locate the hymns more conveniently.
1 The object of reciting the Anand as part of
Sodar Rehras or at the conclusion of the congregational
gathering is just to express joy and gratitude
for the communion with the Guru.
2 This is a model of the Ardas. It may be adapted
to different occasions and for different purposes.
However, the initial composition with "Pritham
Bhagauti...." and the concluding phrases
commencing "Nanak Nam" must not be altered.
** LIT. Supplication or prayer. In reality, it
is a litany comprehending very briefly the whole
gamut of Sikh history and enumerating all that
Sikhism holds sacred. Portions of it are invocations
and prayer for the grant of strength and virtue.
It concludes with : O Nanak, may the Nam (Holy)
be ever in ascendance : in Thy will, may the good
of all prevail!
3 Mention here the name of the scriptural composition
that has been recited or, in appropriate terms,
the object for which the congregation has been
held.
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Joining
the congregation for understanding of and reflecting
on Gurbani
Article V
(a) One is more easily and deeply
affected by gurbani (the holy bani bequeathed
by the Gurus) participating in congregational
gatherings. For this reason, it is necessary for
a Sikh that he visit the places where the Sikhs
congregate for worship and prayer (the gurduwaras),
and joining the congregation, partake of the benefits
that the study of the holy scriptures bestows.
(b) The Guru Granth should be
ceremonially opened in the gurduwara every day
without fail. Except for special exigencies, when
there is need to keep the Guru Granth open during
the night, the Holy Book should not be kept open
during the night. It should, generally, be closed
ceremonially after the conclusion of the Rehras
(evening scriptural recitation). The Holy Book
should remain open so long as a granthi or attendant
can remain in attendance, persons seeking darshan
(seeking a view of or making obeisance to it)
keep coming, or there is no risk of commission
of irreverence towards it. Thereafter, it is advisable
to close it ceremonially to avoid any disrespect
to it.
(c) The Guru Granth should be
opened, read and closed ceremonially with reverence.
The place where it is installed should be absolutely
clean. An awning should be erected above. The
Guru Granth Sahib should be placed on a cot measuring
up to its size and overlaid with absolutely clean
mattress and sheets. For proper installation and
opening of the Guru Granth, there should be cushions/pillows
of appropriate kind etc. and, for covering it,
romalas (sheet covers of appropriate size). When
the Guru Granth is not being read, it should remain
covered with a romal. A whisk, too, should be
there.
(d) Anything except the aforementioned
reverential ceremonies, for instance, such practices
as the arti * with burning incense and lamps,
offering of eatables to Guru Granth Sahib, burning
of lights, beating of gongs, etc., is contrary
to gurmat (the Gurus way). However, for
the perfuming of the place, the use of flowers,
incense and scent is not barred. For light inside
the room, oil or butter-oil lamps, candles, electric
lamps, kerosene oil lamps, etc. may be lighted.
(e) No book should be installed
like and at par with the Guru Granth. Worship
of any idol or any ritual or activity should not
be allowed to be conducted inside the gurdwara.
Nor should the festival of any other faith be
allowed to be celebrated inside the gurduwara.
However, it will not be improper to use any occasion
or gathering for the propagation of the gurmat
(The Gurus way).
(f) Pressing the legs of the cot
on which the Guru Granth Sahib is installed, rubbing
nose against walls and on platforms, held sacred,
or massaging these, placing water below the Guru
Granth Sahibs seat, making or installing
statues, or idols inside the gurduwaras, bowing
before the picture of the Sikh Gurus or elders
- all these are irreligious self-willed egotism,
contrary to gurmat (the Gurus way).
(g) When the Guru Granth has to
be taken from one place to another, the Ardas
should be performed. He/she who carries the Guru
Granth on his/her head should walk barefoot; but
when the wearing of shoes is a necessity, no superstitions
need be entertained.
(h) The Guru Granth Sahib should
be ceremonially opened after performing the Ardas.
After the ceremonial opening, a hymn should be
read from the Guru Granth Sahib.
(i) Whenever the Guru Granth is
brought, irrespective of whether or not another
copy of the Guru Granth has already been installed
at the concerned place, every Sikh should stand
up to show respect.
(j) While going into the gurduwara,
one should take off the shoes and clean oneself
up. If the feet are dirty or soiled, they should
be washed with water.
One should circumambulate with the Guru Granth
Sahib or the gurdwara on one's right.
(k) No person, no matter which
country, religion or cast he/she belongs to, is
debarred from entering the gurduwara for darshan
(seeing the holy shrine). However, he/she should
not have on his/her person anything, such as tobacco
or other intoxicants, which are tabooed by the
Sikh religion.
(l) The first thing a Sikh should
do on entering the gurduwara is to do obeisance
before the Guru Granth Sahib. He/she should, thereafter,
having a glimpse of the congregation and bid in
a low, quiet voice, Waheguru ji ka Khalsa,
Waheguru ji ki Fateh.
(m) In the congregation, there
should be no differentiation or discrimination
between Sikh and non-Sikh, persons traditionally
regarded as touchable and untouchable, the so
called high and low caste persons, the high and
the low.
(n) Sitting on a cushion, a distinctive
seat, a chair, a stool, a cot, etc. or in any
distinctive position in the presence of the Guru
Granth or within the congregation is contrary
to gurmat (Gurus way).
(o) No Sikh should sit bareheaded
in the presence of the Guru Granth Sahib or in
the congregation. For Sikh women, joining the
congregation with their persons uncomfortable
draped and with veils drawn over their faces is
contrary to gurmat (Gurus way).
(p) There are five takhts
(lit, thrones, fig., seats of high authority)
: namely -
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The holy Takht,
Patna Sahib, |
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The
holy Takht, Kesgarh Sahib, Anandpur, |
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The holy Takht
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(q) Only an Amritdhari (baptized)
Sikh man or woman, who faithfully observes the
discipline ordained for the baptized Sikhs, can
enter the hallowed enclosures of the takhts. (Ardas
for and on behalf of any Sikh or non-Sikh, except
a fallen or punished (tankhahia) Sikh, can be
offered at the takhts.
(r) At a high-level site in every
gurdwara should be installed the nishan sahib
(Sikh flag). The cloth of the flag should be either
of xanthic or of grayish blue color and on top
of the flag post, there should either be a spearhead
or a Khanda (a straight dagger with convex side
edges leading to slanting top edges ending in
a vertex).
(s) There should be a drum
(nagara) in the gurduwara for beating on appropriate
occasions.
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Kirtan (Devotional Hymn
Singing by a Group or an individual)
Article VI
(a) Only a Sikh may perform kitran in a congregation.
(b) Kirtan means singing and scriptural compositions
in traditional musical measures.
(c) In the congregation, kirtan only of Gurbani
(Guru Granths or Guru Gobind Singhs
hymns) and, for its elaboration, of the compositions
of Bhai Gurdas and Bhai Nand Lal, may be performed.
(d) It is improper, while singing hymns to rhythmic
folk tunes or to traditional musical measures,
or in team singing, to induct into them improvised
and extraneous refrains. Only a line from the
hymn should be a refrain.
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Taking
Hukam * (Command)
Article VII
(a) Doing obeisance to the Guru Granth Sahib,
respectfully, taking a glimpse of the congregation,
an embodiment of the Gurus person, and taking
the command : these together constitute the view
of the Satguru (Immortal destroyer of darkness,
the true guru). Raising the drapery covering the
Guru Granth Sahib and merely taking a look or
making others take a look at the exposed page,
without taking the command (reading the prescribed
hymn) is contrary to gurmat (Gurus way).
(b) In the course of the congregational sessions,
only one thing should be done at a time : performing
of kirtan, delivering of discourse, interpretative
elaboration of the scriptures, or reading of the
scriptures.
(c) Only a Sikh, man or woman, is entitled to
be in attendance of the Guru Granth during the
congregational session.
(d) Only a Sikh may read out from the Guru Granth
for others. However, even a non-Sikh may read
from it for himself/herself.
(e) For taking the command (Hukam), the hymn
that is continuing on the top of the left page
must be read from the beginning. If the hymn begins
on the previous page, turn over the page and read
the whole hymn from the beginning to the end.
If the scriptural composition that is continuing
on the top of the left hand page is a var (ode),
then start from the first of the slokas preceding
the pauri and read up to the end of the pauri.
Conclude the reading at the end of the hymn with
the line in which the name Nanak occurs.
(f) Hukam must also be taken at the conclusion
of the congregational session or after the Ardas.
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Sadharan
Path (Completion of Normal Intermittent Reading
of the Guru Granth Sahib)
Article VIII
(a) Every Sikh should as far as possible, maintain
a separate and exclusive place for the installation
of Guru Granth Sahib, in his home.
(b) Every Sikh man, woman, boy or girl, should
learn Gurmukhi to be able to read the Guru Granth
Sahib.
(c) Every Sikh should take the Hukam (Command)
of the Guru Granth in the ambrosial (early), hours
of the morning before taking meal. If he/she fails
to do that, he/she should read or listen to reading
from the Guru Granth some time during the day.
If he/she cannot do that either, during travel
etc., or owing to any other impediment, he/she
should not give in to a feeling of guilt.
(d) It is desirable that every Sikh should carry
on a continuous reading of the Guru Granth and
complete a full reading in one or two months or
over a longer period.
(e) While undertaking a full reading of the Guru
Granth, one should recite the Anand Sahib (the
first five and the last stanzas) and perform the
Ardas. One should, thereafter, read the Japuji
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Akhand Path
(Uninterrupted-Non-stop-Completion of the Reading
of the Guru Granth Sahib)
Article IX
(a) The nonstop reading of the Guru Granth is carried
on at hard times or on occasions of elation or joy.
It takes forty-eight hours. The nonstop reading
implies continuous uninterrupted reading. The reading
must be clear and correct. Reading too fast, so
that the person listening in to it cannot follow
the contents, amounts to irreverence to the Scriptures.
The reading should be correct and clear, due care
being bestowed on consonant and vowel, even though
that takes a little longer to complete.
(b) Whichever family or congregation undertakes
the nonstop reading should carry it out itself
through its members, relatives, friends, etc.,
all together. The number of reciters is not prescribed.
If a person himself, cannot read, he should listen
in to the reading by some competent reader. However,
it should never be allowed to happen that the
reader carries on the reading all by himself/herself
and no member of the congregation or the family
is listening in to the reading. The reader should
be served with food and clothing to the best of
the hosts means.
(c) Placing a pitcher, ceremonial clarified-butted-fed
lamp, coconut, etc. around , during the course
of the uninterrupted or any other reading of Guru
Granth Sahib, or reading of other Scriptural texts
side by side with or in the course of such reading
is contrary to the gurmat (Gurus way).
Commencing the Nonstop
Reading
Article X
While undertaking the intermittent reading of
the whole Guru Granth Sahib, the sacred pudding
(Karhah Prashad) for offering should be brought
and after reciting the Anand Sahib (six stanzas)
and offering Ardas, Hukam should be taken. While
beginning the unbroken reading, the sacred pudding
should first be laid. Thereafter, after reciting
the Anand Sahib (six stanzas), offering the Ardas
and taking the Hukam, the reading should be commenced
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Concluding the Reading
Article XI
(a) The reading of the whole Guru Granth Sahib
(intermittent or nonstop) may be concluded with
the reading of the Mundawani or the Rag Mala according
to the convention traditionally observed at the
concerned place. (Since there is a difference
of opinion within the Panth on this issue, nobody
should dare to write or print a copy of the Guru
Granth Sahib excluding the Rag Mala). Thereafter,
after reciting the Anand Sahib, the Ardas of the
conclusion of the reading should be offered and
the sacred pudding (Karhah Prashad) distributed.
(b) On the conclusion of the reading, offering
of draperies, fly whisk and awning, having regard
to the requirements of the Guru Granth Sahib,
and of other things, for Panthic causes, should
be made to the best of means.
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Karhah Prashad (Sacred
Pudding)
Article XII
(a) Only the sacred pudding which has been prepared
or got prepared according to the prescribed method
shall be acceptable in the congregation.
(b) The method of preparing the Karhah Prashad
is this : In a clean vessel, the three contents
(wheat flour, pure sugar and clarified butter,
in equal quantities) should be put and it should
be made reciting the Scriptures. Then covered
with a clean piece of cloth, it should be placed
on a clean stool in front of the Guru Granth Sahib,
the first five and the last stanza of the Anand
Sahib should be recited aloud (so that the congregation
can hear) the Ardas, offered and the pudding tucked
with the sacred Kirpan for acceptance.
(c) After this, before the distribution to the
congregation of the Karhah Prashad, the share
of the five beloved ones should be set apart and
given away. Thereafter, while commencing the general
distribution, the share of the person in attendance
of the Guru Granth Sahib should be put in a small
bowl or vessel and handed over. The person who
doles out the Karhah Prashad among the congregation
should do so without any discrimination on the
basis of personal regard or spite. He should dole
out the Karhah Prashad equally to the Sikhs, the
non-Sikhs or a person of high or low caste. While
doling out the Karhah Prashad, no discrimination
should be made on considerations of caste or ancestry
or being regarded, by some, as untouchable, of
persons within the congregation.
(d) The offering of Karhaha Prashad should be
accompanied by at least two pice in cash.
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Exposition of Gurbani (Sikh
Holy Scriptures)
Article XIII
(a) The exposition of the Gurbani in a congregational
gathering should be carried out only by a Sikh.
(b) The object of the exposition should only
be promoting the understanding of the Gurus
tenets.
(c) The exposition can only be of the ten Gurus
writings or utterances, Bhai Gurdass writings,
Bhai Nand Lals writings or of any generally
accepted Panthic book or of books of history (which
are in agreement with the Gurus tenants)
and not of a book of any other faith. However,
for illustration, references to a holy persons
teachings or those contained in a book may be
made.
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Expository
Discourse
Article XIV
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Gurduwara Service
Article XV
In the gurduwara the schedule of the congregational
service generally is :
Ceremonial opening of the Guru Granth Sahib, Kirtan,
exposition of scriptures, expository discourses,
recitation of Anand Sahib, the Ardas (see Article
IV (3) (a)), the raising of Fateh slogan and then
the slogan Sat Sri Akal and taking the Hukam.
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Living in
Consonance with Gurus Tenets
Article XVI
A Sikhs living, earning livelihood, thinking
and conduct should accord with the Gurus tenets.
The Gurus tenets are :
(a) Worship should be rendered only to the One
Timeless Being and to no god or goddess.
(b) Regarding the ten Gurus, the Guru Granth
and the ten Gurus' word alone as saviors and holy
objects of veneration.
(c) Regarding ten Gurus as the effulgence of
one light and one single entity.
(d) Not believing in cast or descent, untouchability,
magic, spells, incantation, omens, auspicious
times, days and occasions, influence of stars,
horoscopic dispositions, shradh (ritual serving
of food to priests for the salvation of ancestors
on appointed days as per the lunar calendar),
ancestor worship, khiah (ritual serving of food
to priests - Brahmins - on the lunar anniversaries
of the death of an ancestor) *, pind (offering
of funeral barley cakes to the deceaseds
relatives), patal (ritual donating of food in
the belief that that would satisfy the hunger
of the departed soul), diva (the ceremony of keeping
an oil lamp lit for 360 days after the death,
in the belief that that lights the path of the
deceased), ritual funeral acts, hom (lighting
of ritual fire and pouring intermittently clarified
butter, food grains etc. into it for propitiating
gods for the fulfillment of a purpose) jag (religious
ceremony involving presentation of oblations),
tarpan (libation), sikha-sut (keeping a tuft of
hair on the head and wearing thread), bhadan (shaving
of head on the death of a parent), fasting on
new or full moon or other days, wearing of frontal
marks on the forehead, wearing of thread, wearing
of a necklace of the pieces of tulsi **stalk ,
veneration of any graves, of monuments erected
to honour the memory of a deceased person or of
cremation sites, idolatry and such like superstitious
observances. ***
Not owning up or regarding as hallowed any place
other than the Gurus place - such, for instance,
as sacred spots or places of pilgrimage of other
faiths.
Not believing in or according any authority to
Muslim seers, Brahmins holiness, soothsayers,
clairvoyants, oracles, promise of an offering
on the fulfillment of a wish, offering of sweet
loaves or rice pudding at graves on fulfillment
of wishes, the Vedas, the Shastras, the Gayatri
(Hindu scriptural prayer unto the sun), the Gita,
the Quran, the Bible, etc.. However, the study
of the books of other faiths for general self-education
is admissible.
(e) The Khalsa should maintain its distinctiveness
among the professors of different religions of
the world, but should not hurt the sentiment of
any person professing another religion.
(f) A Sikh should pray to God before launching
off any task.
(g) Learning Gurmukhi (Punjabi in Gurmukhi script)
is essential for a Sikh. He should pursue other
studies also.
(h) It is a Sikhs duty to get his children
educated in Sikhism.
(i) A Sikh should, in no way, harbor any antipathy
to the hair of the head with which his child is
born. He should not temper with the hair with
which the child is born. He should add the suffix
Singh to the name of his son. A Sikh
should keep the hair of his sons and daughters
intact.
(j) A Sikh must not take hemp (cannabis), opium,
liquor, tobacco, in short any intoxicant. His
only routine intake should be food.
(k) Piercing of the nose or ears for wearing
ornaments is forbidden for Sikh men and women.
(l) A Sikh should not kill his daughter, nor
should he maintain any relationship with a killer
of daughter.
(m) The true Sikh of the Guru shall make an honest
living by lawful work.
(n) A Sikh shall regard a poor persons
mouth as the Gurus cash offerings box.
(o) A Sikh should not steal, form dubious associations
or engage in gambling.
(p) He who regards another mans daughter
as his own daughter, regards another mans
wife as his mother, has coition with his own wife
alone, he alone is a truly disciplined Sikh of
the Guru.
A Sikh woman shall likewise keep within the confines
of conjugal rectitude.
(q) A Sikh shall observe the Sikh rules of conduct
and conventions from his birth right up to the
end of his life.
(r) A Sikh, when he meets another Sikh, should
greet him with Waheguru ji kA Khalsa, Waheguru
ji ki Fateh ****. This is ordained for Sikh
men and women both.
(s) It is not proper for a Sikh woman to wear
a veil or keep her face hidden by veil or cover.
(t) For a Sikh, there is no restriction or requirement
as to dress except for he must wear Kachhehra
***** and turban. A Sikh woman may or may not
tie turban.
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Ceremonies
pertaining to Birth and Naming of Child
Article XVII
(a) In a Sikhs household, as soon after
the birth of a child as the mother becomes capable
of moving about and taking bath (irrespective
of the number of days which that takes), the family
and relatives should go to a gurduwara with karhah
prashad (sacred pudding) or get karhah prashad
made in the gurduwara and recite in the holy presence
of the Guru Granth Sahib such hymns as parmeshar
ditã banã (Sorath M. 5) *,
Satguru sache diã bhej (Asa
M. 5) ** that are expressive of joy and thankfulness.
Thereafter if a reading of the holy Guru Granth
Sahib had been taken up, that should be concluded.
Then the holy Hukam (command) should be taken.
A name starting with the first letter of the hymn
of the Hukam (command) should be proposed by the
granthi (man in attendance of the holy book) and,
after its acceptance by the congregation, the
name should be announced by him. The boys
name must have the suffix Singh and
the girls, the suffix Kaur.
After that the Anand Sahib (short version comprising
six stanzas) should be recited and the Ardas in
appropriate terms expressing joy over the naming
ceremony be offered and the karhah prashad distributed.
(b) The superstition as to the pollution of food
and water in consequence of birth *** must not
be subscribed to, for the holy writ is : The
birth and death are by His ordinance; coming and
going is by His will. All food and water are,
in principle, clean, for these life-sustaining
substances are provided by Him.
(c) Making shirts or frocks for children out
of the Holy Books draperies is a sacrilege.
The Almighty Lord has granted support. (Sorath
M. 5, Guru Granth Sahib P. 628)
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Anand
Sanskar (Sikh Matrimonial Conventions and Ceremony)
Article XVIII
(a) A Sikh man and woman should enter wedlock
without giving thought to the prospective spouses
caste and descent.
(b) A Sikhs daughter must be married to
a Sikh.
(c) A Sikhs marriage should be solemnized
by Anand marriage rites.
(d) Child marriage is taboo for Sikhs.
(e) When a girl becomes marriageable, physically,
emotionally and by virtue of maturity of character,
a suitable Sikh match should be found and she
be married to him by Anand marriage rites.
(f) Marriage may not be preceded by engagement
ceremony. But if an engagement ceremony is sought
to be held, a congregational gathering should
be held and, after offering the Ardas before the
Guru Granth Sahib, a kirpan, a steel bangle and
some sweets may be tendered to the boy.
(g) Consulting horoscopes for determining which
day or date is auspicious or otherwise for fixing
the day of the marriage is a sacrilege. Any day
that the parties find suitable by mutual consultation
should be fixed.
(h) Putting on floral or gilded face ornamentation,
decorative headgear or red thread bands round
the wrist, worshipping of ancestors, dripping
feet in milk mixed with water, cutting a berry
or jandi (Prosopis spicigera) bushes, filling
pitcher, ceremony of retirement in feigned displeasure,
reciting couplets, performing havans * , installing
vedi (a wooden canopy or pavilion under which
Hindu marriages are performed), prostitutes dances,
drinking liquor, are all sacrileges.
(i) The marriage party should be as small a number
of people as the girls people desire. The
two sides should greet each other singing sacred
hymns and finally by the Sikh greeting of Waheguru
ji kA Khalsa, Waheguru ji ki Fateh.
(j) For marriage, there should be a congregational
gathering in the holy presence of Guru Granth
Sahib. There should be hymn-singing by ragis or
by the whole congregation. Then the girl and boy
should be made to sit facing the Guru Granth Sahib.
The girl should sit on the left side of the boy.
After soliciting the congregations permission,
the master of the marriage ceremony (who may be
a man or woman) should bid the boy and girl and
their parents or guardians to stand and should
offer the Ardas for the commencement of the Anand
marriage ceremony.
The officiant should then appraise the boy and
girl of the duties and obligations of conjugal
life according to the Gurus tenets.
He should initially give to the two an exposition
of their common mutual obligations. He should
tell them how to model the husband-wife relationship
on the love between the individual soul and the
Supreme Soul in the light of the contents of circumbulation
(lavan) hymns in the Suhi measure (rag) section
** of the Guru Granth Sahib.
He should explain to them the notion of the state
of a single soul in two bodies to
be achieved through love and make them see how
they may attain union with the Immortal Being
discharging duties and obligations of the householders
life. Both of them, they should be told, have
to make their conjugal union a means to the fulfillment
of the purpose of the journey of human existence;
both have to lead clean and Guru-oriented lives
through the instrumentality of their union.
He should then explain to the boy and girl individually
their respective conjugal duties as husband and
wife.
The bridegroom should be told that the girls
people having chosen him as the fittest match
from among a whole lot, he should regard his wife
as his better half, accord to her unflinching
love and share with her all that he has. In all
situations, he should protect her person and honour,
he should be completely loyal to her and he should
show as much respect and consideration for her
parents and relations as for his own.
The girl should be told that she has been joined
in matrimony to her man in the hallowed presence
of the Guru Granth Sahib and the congregation.
She should ever harbour for him deferential solicitude,
regard him the lord and master of her love and
trust; she should remain firm in her loyalty to
him and serve him in joy and sorrow and in every
clime (native or foreign) and should show the
same regard and consideration to his parents and
relatives as she would, to her own parents and
relatives.
The boy and girl should bow before the Guru Granth
Sahib to betoken their acceptance of these instructions.
Thereafter, the girls father or the principal
relation should make the girl grasp one end of
the sash which the boy is wearing over his shoulders
and the person in attendance of the Guru Granth
Sahib should recite the matrimonial circumambulation
stanzas (lavan of the fourth Guru in the Suhi
musical measure section of the Guru Granth) ***
. After the conclusion of the recitation of each
of the stanzas, the boy, followed by the girl
holding the end of the sash, should go round the
Guru Granth Sahib while the ragis or the congregation
sing out the recited stanza.
The boy and girl, after every circumambulation,
should bow before the Guru Granth Sahib in genuflexion,
lowering their forehead to touch the ground and
then stand up to listen to the recitation of the
next stanza. There being four matrimonial circumambulation
stanzas in the concerned hymn, the proceeding
will comprise four circumambulations with the
incidental singing of the stanza. After the fourth
circumabulation, the boy and girl should, after
bowing before the Guru Granth Sahib, sit down
at the appointed place and the ragis or the person
who has conducted the ceremony should recite the
first five and the last stanza of the Anand Sahib.
Thereafter, the Ardas should be offered to mark
the conclusion of the Anand marriage ceremony
and the sacred pudding distributed.
(k) Persons professing faiths other than the
Sikh faith cannot be joined in wedlock by the
Anand Karaj ceremony.
(l) No Sikh should accept a match for his/her
son or daughter for monetary consideration.
(m) If the girls parents at any time or
on any occasion visit their daughters home
and a meal is ready there, they should not hesitate
to eat there. Abstaining from eating at the girls
home is a superstition. The Khalsa has been blessed
with the boon of victuals and making others eat
by the Guru and the Immortal Being. The girls
and boys people should keep accepting each
others hospitality, because the Guru has
joined them in relationship of equality.
(n) If a womans husband has died, she may,
if she so wishes, finding a match suitable for
her, remarry. For a Sikh man whose wife has died,
similar ordinance obtains.
(o) The remarriage may be solemnized in the same
manner as the Anand marriage.
(p) Generally, no Sikh should marry a second
wife if the first wife is alive.
(q) A baptized Sikh ought to get his wife baptized.
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Funeral Ceremonies
Article XIX
(a) The body of a dying or dead person, if it
is on a cot, must not be taken off the cot and
put on the floor. Nor must a lit lamp be placed
beside, or a cow got bestowed in donation by,
him/her or for his/her good or any other ceremony,
contrary to Gurus way, performed. Only Gurbani
should be recited or Waheguru, Waheguru
repeated by his/her side.
(b) When some one shuffles the mortal coil, the
survivors must not grieve or raise a hue and cry
or indulge in breast beating. To induce a mood
of resignation to Gods will, it is desirable
to recite Gurbani or repeat Waheguru.
(c) However young deceased may be, the body should
be cremated. However, where arrangements for cremation
cannot be made, there should be no qualm about
the body being immersed in flowing water or disposed
of in any other manner.
(d) As to the time of cremation, no consideration
as to whether it should take place during day
or night should weigh.
(e) The dead body should be bathed and clothed
in clean clothes. While that is done, the Sikh
symbols - comb, kachha, karha, kirpan - should
not be taken off. Thereafter, putting the body
on a plank, Ardas about its being taken away for
disposal be offered. The hearse should then be
lifted and taken to the cremation ground, hymns
that induce feeling of detachment should be recited.
On reaching the cremation ground, the pyre should
be laid. Then the Ardas for consigning the body
to fire be offered. The dead body should then
be placed on the pyre and the son or any other
relation or friend of the deceased should set
fire to it. The accompanying congregation should
sit at a reasonable distance and listen to kirtan
or carry on collective singing of hymns or recitation
of detachment-inducing hymns. When the pyre is
fully aflame, the Kirtan Sohila (prescribed pre-retirement
night Scriptural prayer) be recited and the Ardas
offered. (Piercing the Skull half and hour or
so after the pyre has been burning with a rod
or something else in the belief that it will secure
the release of the soul - kapal kriya - is contrary
to the Gurus tenets). The congregation should
then leave.
Coming back home, a reading of the Guru Granth
Sahib should be commenced at home or in a nearby
gurduwara, and after reciting the six stanzas
of the Anand Sahib, the Ardas, offered and karhah
prashad (sacred pudding) distributed. The reading
of the Guru Granth Sahib should be completed on
the tenth day. If the reading cannot, or is sought
not to, be completed on the tenth day, some other
day may be appointed for the conclusion of the
reading having regard to the convenience of the
relatives. The reading of the Guru Granth Sahib
should be carried out by the members of the household
of the deceased and relatives in cooperation.
If possible, Kirtan may be held every night. No
funeral ceremony remains to be performed after
the tenth day.
(f) When the pyre is burnt out, the whole bulk
of the ashes, including the burnt bones, should
be gathered up and immersed in flowing water or
buried at that very place and the ground leveled.
Raising a monument to the memory of the deceased
at the place where his dead body is cremated is
taboo.
(g)
Adh marg (the ceremony of breaking the pot used
for bathing the dead body amid doleful cries half
way towards the cremation ground), organized lamentation
by women, foorhi (sitting on a straw mat in mourning
for a certain period), diva (keeping an oil lamp
lit for 360 days after the death in the belief
that it will light the path of the deceased),
pind (ritual donating of lumps of rice flour,
oat flour, or solidified milk (khoa) for ten days
after death), kirya (concluding the funeral proceedings
ritualistically, serving meals and making offerings
by way of shradh, budha marna (waving of whisk,
over the hearse of an old persons dead body
and decorating the hearse with festoons), etc.
are contrary to the approved code. So too is the
picking of the burnt bones from the ashes of the
pyre for immersing in the Ganga, at Patalpuri
(at Kiratpur), at Kartarpur Sahib or at any other
such place.
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Other Rites
and Conventions
Article XX
Apart from these rites and conventions, on every
happy or sad occasion, such as moving into a new
house, setting up a new business (shop), putting
a child to school, etc., a Sikh should pray for
Gods help by performing the Ardas. The essential
components of all rites and ceremonies in Sikhism
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Voluntary
Service
Article XXI
(1) Voluntary service is a prominent part of
Sikh religion. Illustrative models of voluntary
service are organized, for imparting training,
in the gurduwaras. Its simple forms are : sweeping
and plastering the floors * of the gurduwara,
serving water to or fanning the congregation,
offering provisions to and rendering any kind
of service in the common kitchen-cum-eating house,
dusting the shoes of the people visiting the gurduwara,
etc.
(a) Gurus kitchen-cum-Eating House. The
philosophy behind the Gurus kitchen-cum-eating
house is two fold : to provide training to the
Sikhs in voluntary service and to help banish
all distinction of high and low, touchable and
untouchable from the Sikhs minds.
(b) All human beings, high or low, and of any
caste or color may sit and eat in the Gurus
kitchen-cum-eating house. No discrimination on
grounds of the country of origin, colour, caste
or religion must be made while making people sit
in rows for eating. However, only baptized Sikhs
can eat off one plate.
*In olden times, buildings, particularly in rural
areas had mud and not brick paved or cement floors.
To give to these floors firmness and consistency,
they were thinly plastered with a diluted compound
of mud.
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Facets of
Corporate Sikh Life
Article XXII
The essential facets of Panthic life are :
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Guru Panth (the
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The ceremony
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Panths
Status of Guruhood
Article XXIII
The concept of service is not confined to fanning
the congregation, service to and in the common kitchen-cum-eating
house, etc. A Sikhs entire life is a life
of benevolent exertion. The most fruitful service
is the service that secures the optimum good by
minimal endeavor. That can be achieved through organized
collective action. A Sikh has, for this reason,
to fulfill his Panthic obligations (obligations
as a member of the corporate entity, the Panth),
even as he/she performs his/her individual duties.
This corporate entity is the Panth. Every Sikh has
also to fulfill his obligations as a unit of the
corporate body, the Panth.
The Guru Panth (Panths status of Guruhood)
means the whole body of committed baptized Sikhs.
This body was fostered by all the ten Gurus and
the tenth Guru gave it its final shape and invested
it with Guruhood.
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Ceremony
of Baptism or Initiation
Article XXIV
(a) Ambrosial baptism should be held at an exclusive
place away from common human traffic.
(b) At the place where ambrosial baptism is to
be administered, the holy Guru Granth Sahib should
be installed and ceremonially opened. Also present
should be six committed baptized Sikhs, one of
whom should sit in attendance of the Guru Granth
Sahib and the other five should be there to administer
the ambrosial baptism. These six may even include
Sikh women. All of them must have taken bath and
washed their hair.
(c) The five beloved ones who administer ambrosial
baptism should not include a disabled person,
such as a person who is blind or blind in one
eye, lame, one with a broken or disabled limb,
or one suffering from some chronic disease. The
number should not include anyone who has committed
a breach of the Sikh discipline and principles.
All of them should be committed baptized Sikhs
with appealing personalities.
(d) Any man or woman of any country, religion
or cast who embraces Sikhism and solemnly undertakes
to abide by its principles is entitled to ambrosial
baptism.
The person to be baptized should not be of very
young age; he or she should have attained a plausible
degree of discretion. The person to be baptized
must have taken bath and washed the hair and must
wear all five Ks - Kesh (unshorn hair),
strapped Kirpan (sword), Kachhehra (prescribed
shorts), Kanga (Comb tucked in the tied up hair),
Karha (Steel bracelet). He/she must not have on
his/her person any token of any other faith. He/she
must not have his/her head bare or be wearing
a cap. He/she must not be wearing any ornaments
piercing through any part of the body. The persons
to be baptized must stand respectfully with hands
folded facing the Guru Granth Sahib.
(e) Anyone seeking to be rebaptised, having committed
an aberration, should be singled out and the five
beloved ones should award chastisement to him/her
in the presence of the congregation.
(f) One from amongst the five beloved ones administering
ambrosial baptism to persons seeking to be baptized
should explain the principles of the Sikh religion
to them :
The Sikh religion advocated the renunciation of
the worship of any created thing, and rendering
of worship and loving devotion to, and meditating
on, the One Supreme Creator. For the fulfillment
of such devotion and meditation, reflection on
the contents of Gurbani and practicing of its
tenets, participation in the congregational services,
rendering service to the Panth, benevolent exertion
(to promote the good of others), love of Gods
name (loving reflection on the experience of the
Divine), living within the Sikh discipline after
getting baptized etc. are the principal means.
He should conclude his exposition of the principles
of Sikh religion with the query : Do you accept
these willingly?
(g) On an affirmative response from the seekers
of baptism, one from amongst the five beloved
ones should perform the Ardas for the preparation
of baptism and take the holy Hukam (command).
* The five beloved ones should come close to the
bowl for preparing the amrit (ambrosial nectar).
(h) The bowl should be of pure steel and it should
be placed on a clean steel ring or other clean
support.
(i) Clean water and sugar puffs should be put
in the bowl and the five beloved ones should sit
around it in bir posture and recite the undermentioned
scriptural compositions.
(j) The scriptural composition to be recited
are : The Japuji, the Jaap, The Ten Sawayyas (commencing
with sarawag sud), The Bainti Chaupai (from hamrì
karõ hãth dai rachhã
to dusht dõkh te lehõ bachãi),
the first five and the last one stanza of the
Anand Sahib.
(k) Each of the five beloved ones who recites
the scripture should hold the edge of the bowl
with his left hand and keep stirring the water
with a double-edged sword held in his right hand.
He should do that with full concentration. The
rest of the beloved ones should keep gripping
the edge of the bowl with both hands concentrating
their full attention on the ambrosial nectar.
(l) After the conclusion of the recitation, one
from amongst the beloved ones should perform the
Ardas.
(m) Only that person seeking to be baptized who
has participated in the entire ceremony of ambrosial
baptism can be baptized. One who has turned up
while the ceremony was in progress cannot be baptized.
(n) After the Ardas as per clause (l) above,
thinking of our Father, the tenth Master, the
wearer of the aigrette, every person seeking to
be baptized should sit in bir posture, putting
his/her right hand cupped on the left cupped hand
and be made to drink the ambrosial mix five times,
as the beloved one who pours the mix into his
cupped hand exclaims : say, Waheguru ji kA Khalsa,
Waheguru ji ki Fateh! (The Khalsa is of the Wondrous
Destroyer of darkness; victory too, is His!) The
person being baptized should after imbibing the
ambrosia, repeat: Waheguru ji kA Khalsa, Waheguru
ji ki Fateh. Then five handfuls of the ambrosial
mix should be sprinkled into the eyes of the person
being baptized and another five into his hair.
Each such sprinkling should be accompanied by
the beloved one administering baptism saying,
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